Ask Me Anything
On Instagram I recently hosted an AMA, and here are the answers to some of your questions!
Five Signs Your Gym Prioritizes Profit Over Progress
Martial arts schools are ultimately businesses, and making enough money to keep the lights on is essential. However, there are some red flags that may signal a gym is more focused on control, profit, or self-promotion than its students’ well-being.
How To Navigate Mixed Gender Training
In 2026, more gyms have become inclusive spaces where athletes of all genders train together. That’s progress - but it also creates situations that many martial artists aren’t sure how to navigate.
Alone in the Room: Women in Combat Sports
Being a woman in a traditionally male-dominated space comes with friction. You often have to fight to be heard, respected, and, at times, to feel safe. Combat sports are no exception.
The Illusion of Hierarchy
One of the most common reasons newer students give for avoiding group classes isn’t intimidation - it’s that they don’t want to “take reps” away from someone better than them.
The Forbidden Moves
Like any community, martial arts has its own set of unspoken rules. It’s useful to understand these common sparring mistakes ahead of time.
The Gym Is Therapy - And It Shouldn’t Be
According to so many, the gym is therapy - so why was I still struggling? Why was I, in some ways, even worse than before?
This Is The Way
In combat sports, there are a lot of potential red flags - but there’s one that beginners can learn to recognize immediately.
Why Communication Matters in Training
The idea that you must prove yourself by taking or inflicting long-term damage - damage that can reduce cognitive function later in life - is both outdated and unnecessary.
Your First Fight, Explained
The first fight is confusing, overwhelming, and sometimes terrifying. That’s part of the fun. But knowing what to expect can remove a lot of unnecessary stress.
The Combat Sports Lexicon
What’s “Mai Thai?” How is the UFC different from MMA? And what the hell is a ‘smoker?’ This is your one stop shop for all things combat sports terminology.
The Best Gear for Every Budget
With so many brands, sizes, and styles, it can be a struggle to find the right equipment for you (and your budget). Here’s our list of the best gear at each price point.
The Beginner’s Survival Guide
Stepping into the gym for the first time may be the hardest part, but the first few months of training aren’t always much easier.